I was in a long-distance relationship with this girl (let’s call her Puspa) for about 2 years. For the last 4 months, we were seeing each other almost every day. We got really used to each other’s routines, FaceTiming daily, sharing everything about our past relationships, family, life, etc. I genuinely trusted her. On Valentine’s Day, I was taking photos from her phone and saw a WhatsApp notification pop up from a guy she had mentioned before. Let’s call him Pankaj. She always told me he was just a former work colleague, married, nothing to worry about, “dai ani sathi” type. Whenever I brought him up before, she’d get angry for days and tell me I was overthinking. What made it weird was that this particular WhatsApp chat had Face ID lock on it. I checked later and noticed messages had been deleted. Then I searched his name in her chats and found another guy (let’s call him Prajwal) constantly messaging her things like: “Babe call me tomorrow morning,” “Malai garo bhayo Puspa,” kissing emojis, etc. She never replied to those flirty texts, but she DID reply to his normal messages and meetup plans. After that, I checked her Facebook group chat with her best friends and searched his name there too. I found old conversations where her friends were talking about how he might leave his girlfriend for her, and she was joking about his girlfriend being “kati soji.” She also said after her breakup it was “her time to have fun.” These chats happened before we officially met, but still it hit me badly. When I confronted her, she didn’t really explain anything properly. I was crying and asking questions, and her response was basically: “So????” That honestly broke me. I asked her to leave my house. She refused at first, kept banging on the bathroom door while I locked myself inside because I couldn’t even process what I was feeling. Eventually she left after saying we’d meet the next day and discuss everything properly, but I ignored her for days. She kept calling and asking to meet. When we finally did, she denied most of it and said he was “just a casual friend,” nothing physical happened, and they only hung out in groups. Because I loved her, I gave her another chance. But the problem is, her actions never changed. Even when I asked if she’d block these guys or leave those groups behind, she said things like: “This number is connected to my bank, license, everything. I’ll keep this number too.” That’s when I started feeling like this was completely one-sided love. I even confronted the guy directly and threatened to tell his wife (let’s call her Ava). He basically told me he didn’t care, said “one-sided love garera huncha,” then blocked me everywhere after an 18-minute call. Now I’m sitting here angry, confused, and honestly heartbroken. Part of me wants to expose everything to his wife. Another part of me feels like I’m just destroying myself mentally over this whole situation. She apologized and asked for another chance, but every time I tried to rebuild trust, it felt like she kept protecting her options instead of protecting the relationship. What would you guys do in my situation? Am I overreacting or ignoring obvious red flags?